So when I first started the planning process, I was adamant that I was not going to wear a veil. I even tried some on to appease some people but I never really found one that I loved. But the lady who helped me at David's Bridal said something that kind of made sense: "Without the veil you are just wearing a white dress. With a veil, you are a bride."
Maybe she was just trying to make a sale, but what she said had some truth to it - you may wear a white dress again but (hopefully) you will only wear a veil once.
My only issue was whether or not a veil looks good with something else in your hair. I was thinking about wearing a headband or a flower. I also wanted a very, very simple veil because of the simplicity of my dress - no sparkles, no lace, nothing. Basically, plain jane for me.
I think I am leaning towards a flower now. I really liked some of the headbands I tried on but I think they may be a bit too flashy for a beach wedding. And they really aren't me. I am not much for sparkles. I found this flower on etsy at mod wedding that I really love. It is very simple.
I like how it is not too big and delicate in the hair. But now the big dilemma was weather or not the veil would look okay with a flower. I found a bunch of pictures of brides with birdcage veils that had big flowers but nothing for a veil like I wanted. I searched google images and I found this:
Ok, I love it! That is just the type of veil I want. And her flower is very similar to mine as well. So I searched etsy to find a veil that won't break the bank (it is ridiculous how expensive some tulle is!). I am not sure if I want a veil that reaches my fingertips or around where my knees are. I found this on etsy at Marisol Aparicio:
Should I go ahead and buy the flower and veil? Should I go with fingertip or a little longer? What do you think?