Basically, the FH and I are pretty sure we are going with linen shirts. They are cooler and beachy but can still be semi-formal looking. (The FH figured this could be his gift to them as well.) I mentioned having them in linen pants as well but the FH said they are much more likely to wear a pair of khakis again as opposed to linen pants. Point taken. Khaki pants it is.
Basically, this is probably what our groomsmen will look like:
I found linen shirts from Island Importer. They are the linen almalfi shirt in long sleeve. If we don't go with this shirt we will probably go with something very similar. I think instead of the white, we would order them in ivory since most likely my dress is going to ivory.
in french blue
I guess they can just wear brown leather flip flops and a brown leather belt as well. I mean this groom made flops work with a suit:
Although, I'm still not sure about flops for the FH though. My dress will probably be a bit more formal than hers. (I am making my decision this weekend!)